Sometimes I think some of you need to take a very deep breath, stop playing this game or posting for a bit, and go eat a sandwich.
Spaceship role-playing and our fictional worlds don't always deserve this much attention and navel-gazing over supposed slights from other community members and forum ridiculousness.
People should, in general HTFU about stuff, for real.
This may not be the most polite advice or necessarily the most compassionate considering the general level of butt-hurtness people here display regularly but this would probably alleviate just about all of the problems we face as a group.
People should HTFU more when they receive criticism, and people should HTFU more when they feel they've been insulted, not every issue is a threadnaught issue.